"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well I'm actually getting weaker. It's because I'm feeling sick AGAIN.
I'm working on cleaning up my diet more,
Squats 3 x 5 @ 90kgs
Stiff Leg Deadlifts 2 x 10-15 @ 90kgs
Glute Ham Raise 2 x 8
Calf Raises 2 x 10 @ 25kgs
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1) outline in this post your entire (true) dietary intake and supplementation
2) cut down to a 2 day split until we get this under control.
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after that look into some allergy testing but I think that's unnecessary as if you feel like **** after eating a certain food you know it's not for you.
processed potato salad
chips and dip(with sour creme)
rice pudding etc.
no vitamins
Felt sick afterward with diorrea. I think lactose is really starting to affect me.
Sunday and Monday
I ate very clean but not enough due to feeling like cr@p.
chicken salad
scrambled eggs
raw eggs
All my vitamins. B's C's zinc, fish oil, multi, joint formula, calcium.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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And obviously these foods don't agree with you.
It'll take you a while to get your digestion/allergies under control and for that time you'll have to eat strictly but we'll get it
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have been eating well and training light.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.