“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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davester88

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I had quite an interesting night last night. I kind of thought of it as my coming out, from an AFC to a DJ.

I was talking to this girl on msn who I am sorta friends with, but I've been trying to get with her for a while now. So we were both bored on msn, right, then I suggest we do something, she says right on and gives me her number to call if I wanna hang out.

So we met up and she asked me what we were gonna do. I said whatever I feel like or find, and I work something out, I always do. We eneded up going to a park and swinging on the swings at a nearby school. We just talked for a while, she never really looked at me as more than a friend, but then again she seems really shy.

So we talked for a while, had a nice chat, then on the way back, I asked her out. She said not right now. I just went along with it and rolled along like a DJ should, and while I was waiting for the bus, she came and waited with me. I dont know if her waiting for me means anything.

your thoughts, any way I could get her quickly would be appreciated! Thanks

Dave
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She was just being nice, get a new girl.
 

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lol....that seems like such a big step right now, but keep pushing and soon you'll be telling us about how you slept with a girl after talking for a couple minutes and stuff...


She sounds like a friend more than a lover, just get more and more girls on your menu and keep on gaming em. Soon your skills will shoot thru tha roof
 

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It is a postive sign. A sign. Does it indicate that she changed her mind? Answer: No. Deep down you knew it, for you took no iniative in asking her again, etc.

She is interested, but she wants to get to know you. She is visibly pleased and attempted to give you a beacon of hope by being friendly.

There is a potential.

Be a DJ, and unleash it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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