"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I had quite an interesting night last night. I kind of thought of it as my coming out, from an AFC to a DJ.

I was talking to this girl on msn who I am sorta friends with, but I've been trying to get with her for a while now. So we were both bored on msn, right, then I suggest we do something, she says right on and gives me her number to call if I wanna hang out.

So we met up and she asked me what we were gonna do. I said whatever I feel like or find, and I work something out, I always do. We eneded up going to a park and swinging on the swings at a nearby school. We just talked for a while, she never really looked at me as more than a friend, but then again she seems really shy.

So we talked for a while, had a nice chat, then on the way back, I asked her out. She said not right now. I just went along with it and rolled along like a DJ should, and while I was waiting for the bus, she came and waited with me. I dont know if her waiting for me means anything.

your thoughts, any way I could get her quickly would be appreciated! Thanks

Dave
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She was just being nice, get a new girl.
 
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lol....that seems like such a big step right now, but keep pushing and soon you'll be telling us about how you slept with a girl after talking for a couple minutes and stuff...


She sounds like a friend more than a lover, just get more and more girls on your menu and keep on gaming em. Soon your skills will shoot thru tha roof
 
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It is a postive sign. A sign. Does it indicate that she changed her mind? Answer: No. Deep down you knew it, for you took no iniative in asking her again, etc.

She is interested, but she wants to get to know you. She is visibly pleased and attempted to give you a beacon of hope by being friendly.

There is a potential.

Be a DJ, and unleash it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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