"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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davester88

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I had quite an interesting night last night. I kind of thought of it as my coming out, from an AFC to a DJ.

I was talking to this girl on msn who I am sorta friends with, but I've been trying to get with her for a while now. So we were both bored on msn, right, then I suggest we do something, she says right on and gives me her number to call if I wanna hang out.

So we met up and she asked me what we were gonna do. I said whatever I feel like or find, and I work something out, I always do. We eneded up going to a park and swinging on the swings at a nearby school. We just talked for a while, she never really looked at me as more than a friend, but then again she seems really shy.

So we talked for a while, had a nice chat, then on the way back, I asked her out. She said not right now. I just went along with it and rolled along like a DJ should, and while I was waiting for the bus, she came and waited with me. I dont know if her waiting for me means anything.

your thoughts, any way I could get her quickly would be appreciated! Thanks

Dave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bunk 040

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She was just being nice, get a new girl.
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol....that seems like such a big step right now, but keep pushing and soon you'll be telling us about how you slept with a girl after talking for a couple minutes and stuff...


She sounds like a friend more than a lover, just get more and more girls on your menu and keep on gaming em. Soon your skills will shoot thru tha roof
 

Fitch

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It is a postive sign. A sign. Does it indicate that she changed her mind? Answer: No. Deep down you knew it, for you took no iniative in asking her again, etc.

She is interested, but she wants to get to know you. She is visibly pleased and attempted to give you a beacon of hope by being friendly.

There is a potential.

Be a DJ, and unleash it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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