"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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davester88

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I had quite an interesting night last night. I kind of thought of it as my coming out, from an AFC to a DJ.

I was talking to this girl on msn who I am sorta friends with, but I've been trying to get with her for a while now. So we were both bored on msn, right, then I suggest we do something, she says right on and gives me her number to call if I wanna hang out.

So we met up and she asked me what we were gonna do. I said whatever I feel like or find, and I work something out, I always do. We eneded up going to a park and swinging on the swings at a nearby school. We just talked for a while, she never really looked at me as more than a friend, but then again she seems really shy.

So we talked for a while, had a nice chat, then on the way back, I asked her out. She said not right now. I just went along with it and rolled along like a DJ should, and while I was waiting for the bus, she came and waited with me. I dont know if her waiting for me means anything.

your thoughts, any way I could get her quickly would be appreciated! Thanks

Dave
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bunk 040

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She was just being nice, get a new girl.
 

Microphone Fiend

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lol....that seems like such a big step right now, but keep pushing and soon you'll be telling us about how you slept with a girl after talking for a couple minutes and stuff...


She sounds like a friend more than a lover, just get more and more girls on your menu and keep on gaming em. Soon your skills will shoot thru tha roof
 

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It is a postive sign. A sign. Does it indicate that she changed her mind? Answer: No. Deep down you knew it, for you took no iniative in asking her again, etc.

She is interested, but she wants to get to know you. She is visibly pleased and attempted to give you a beacon of hope by being friendly.

There is a potential.

Be a DJ, and unleash it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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