"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

My sticking point

I

iryst

Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2014
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Ok, so I messaged the girl from my last thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216718

Me (yesterday): hi, how was your hangover, did it last until Monday like mine did? :D :D if you have time tommorow, we can go and grab a glass of wine or two :)

Her (today): hi, the hangover was hard, fortunately I cured it with more alcohol the next day :) I don't have time today, I already said I would go wall climbing

And here goes my sticking point again. I suck at getting girls out after they refuse the first invitation, although it sometimes isn't an excuse (well... at least I guess that it's an excuse only sometimes).

I literally do not know what to do now. How to get her out without coming across as too eager?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

AttackFormation

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,055
Reaction score
3,609
Age
33
Location
Sweden
If she can meet up and she knows you want to because you just offered to, she will make it happen unless she doesn't want to.
 
AttackFormation

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,055
Reaction score
3,609
Age
33
Location
Sweden
What do you usually respond with?
 
I

iryst

Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2014
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
I usually wait for a day or two and ask her out again (usually doesn't work). I know I always come across as needy then, but that's the best I can do right now in this situation (except for not responding at all or playing I don't care, which is better for my ego, but doesn't get me the date anyways).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

AttackFormation

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,055
Reaction score
3,609
Age
33
Location
Sweden
iryst said:
(not responding at all or playing it cool, which is better).
Click to expand...
There you go.
 
AttackFormation

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,055
Reaction score
3,609
Age
33
Location
Sweden
Well princess, you can't always get what you want in the moment.
 
El Payaso

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
Wait a week and try again. If she doesn't accept then delete her number and forget her.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top