So i just started college and after school i go to the gym thats part of the school. Well one day i went to go swimming and i went into the room where the pool is and i hear girls laughing. So i go peak around the corner and i see two girls one really hot one with a nice body and the other was ok. So i back off alittle and think about just leaving. ( This situation was just so random) i got that kind of feeling like i was an outsider. But i took my shirt off and went up to the pool and jumped in. They then went to the whirlpool, after a couple laps in the pool i decide to go to the whirlpool myself. I walk up and say " do you mind if i come in" they said "nope". But i freeze and dont say anything. So for me it gets really aqwaurd. So i just sit and they talk to eachother. When they get ready to leave they say " nice to see you" and leave. Yeah... i need help with this. How do i motivate myself to act on these things. Perfect set up , no balls.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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