So i just started college and after school i go to the gym thats part of the school. Well one day i went to go swimming and i went into the room where the pool is and i hear girls laughing. So i go peak around the corner and i see two girls one really hot one with a nice body and the other was ok. So i back off alittle and think about just leaving. ( This situation was just so random) i got that kind of feeling like i was an outsider. But i took my shirt off and went up to the pool and jumped in. They then went to the whirlpool, after a couple laps in the pool i decide to go to the whirlpool myself. I walk up and say " do you mind if i come in" they said "nope". But i freeze and dont say anything. So for me it gets really aqwaurd. So i just sit and they talk to eachother. When they get ready to leave they say " nice to see you" and leave. Yeah... i need help with this. How do i motivate myself to act on these things. Perfect set up , no balls.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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