So i just started college and after school i go to the gym thats part of the school. Well one day i went to go swimming and i went into the room where the pool is and i hear girls laughing. So i go peak around the corner and i see two girls one really hot one with a nice body and the other was ok. So i back off alittle and think about just leaving. ( This situation was just so random) i got that kind of feeling like i was an outsider. But i took my shirt off and went up to the pool and jumped in. They then went to the whirlpool, after a couple laps in the pool i decide to go to the whirlpool myself. I walk up and say " do you mind if i come in" they said "nope". But i freeze and dont say anything. So for me it gets really aqwaurd. So i just sit and they talk to eachother. When they get ready to leave they say " nice to see you" and leave. Yeah... i need help with this. How do i motivate myself to act on these things. Perfect set up , no balls.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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