So i just started college and after school i go to the gym thats part of the school. Well one day i went to go swimming and i went into the room where the pool is and i hear girls laughing. So i go peak around the corner and i see two girls one really hot one with a nice body and the other was ok. So i back off alittle and think about just leaving. ( This situation was just so random) i got that kind of feeling like i was an outsider. But i took my shirt off and went up to the pool and jumped in. They then went to the whirlpool, after a couple laps in the pool i decide to go to the whirlpool myself. I walk up and say " do you mind if i come in" they said "nope". But i freeze and dont say anything. So for me it gets really aqwaurd. So i just sit and they talk to eachother. When they get ready to leave they say " nice to see you" and leave. Yeah... i need help with this. How do i motivate myself to act on these things. Perfect set up , no balls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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