Anima
Don Juan
I decided that I need to do NoFap, so I'm going to be recording it here.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My NoFap
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anima
Don Juan
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NorwegianDJ
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lol. I'll join cause my **** is chafing.
Highschoolkidzz
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Haha.
Hey but whats actually your goal? To "resett" your brain or just to see how long you can go without fapping?
Hey but whats actually your goal? To "resett" your brain or just to see how long you can go without fapping?
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I remember going 2+ weeks of no fap and I had to sleep on my side or back or else I would have a wet dream.
Good times...
Good times...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I've been trying to reach 90 days of nofap, I kid you not It's been affecting my time and my studies terribly as well as the focus and motivations I have daily.
I took up nofap a year ago, but it hasn't been going well for me lately.
Since were all in this together, I think we'll pull through quite well.
Day 1 starts today. :cheer:
I took up nofap a year ago, but it hasn't been going well for me lately.
Since were all in this together, I think we'll pull through quite well.
Day 1 starts today. :cheer:
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I have been doing the Nofap challenge for a year now and my limit was about 6 weeks. Every time i fap I notice some serious changes on me and even around me, most of the time bad luck, exhausted for the first 2 days after faping, easily feeling awkward, lack of inspiration while discussing topics with other people and angry. After 3 days im normal again and as the time moves on im more calm,i think more clearly,my real self comes easily outside( im a really funny guy) and almost everything is moving as i want to. Actually i think its easy to not fap as long as you are controling your thoughts when you see a female and when you are busy with your work.
Some of you might ask ' then why dont you hold it longer ? ' The reason is that after 4-5 weeks i feel sexually neutral i mean i dont want to have sex or something like that ( except when i see my hot girlfriend with these tiny clothes lol ) so its like im doing a reset but i dont know about 90 days as the challenge suggests . Ill try to hold it and post the journey here after i reach the 90 days
Some of you might ask ' then why dont you hold it longer ? ' The reason is that after 4-5 weeks i feel sexually neutral i mean i dont want to have sex or something like that ( except when i see my hot girlfriend with these tiny clothes lol ) so its like im doing a reset but i dont know about 90 days as the challenge suggests . Ill try to hold it and post the journey here after i reach the 90 days
