"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My NoFap

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skyline

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I remember going 2+ weeks of no fap and I had to sleep on my side or back or else I would have a wet dream.

Good times...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pivot

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I'm curious, do you do this because it has a history of helping with girls, or just as a sort of challenge?
 

Fedex

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I've been trying to reach 90 days of nofap, I kid you not It's been affecting my time and my studies terribly as well as the focus and motivations I have daily.

I took up nofap a year ago, but it hasn't been going well for me lately.

Since were all in this together, I think we'll pull through quite well.

Day 1 starts today. :cheer:
 

NSX-R

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I have been doing the Nofap challenge for a year now and my limit was about 6 weeks. Every time i fap I notice some serious changes on me and even around me, most of the time bad luck, exhausted for the first 2 days after faping, easily feeling awkward, lack of inspiration while discussing topics with other people and angry. After 3 days im normal again and as the time moves on im more calm,i think more clearly,my real self comes easily outside( im a really funny guy) and almost everything is moving as i want to. Actually i think its easy to not fap as long as you are controling your thoughts when you see a female and when you are busy with your work.

Some of you might ask ' then why dont you hold it longer ? ' The reason is that after 4-5 weeks i feel sexually neutral i mean i dont want to have sex or something like that ( except when i see my hot girlfriend with these tiny clothes lol ) so its like im doing a reset but i dont know about 90 days as the challenge suggests . Ill try to hold it and post the journey here after i reach the 90 days
 

yungballa

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90 days of no fap is easy....






for me, at least. my longest time of nofap is 4.5 months. In all honesty, all you gotta do is just /dont/ touch your ****ing ****.
 
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