Anima
Don Juan
I decided that I need to do NoFap, so I'm going to be recording it here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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NorwegianDJ
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lol. I'll join cause my **** is chafing.
Highschoolkidzz
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Haha.
Hey but whats actually your goal? To "resett" your brain or just to see how long you can go without fapping?
Hey but whats actually your goal? To "resett" your brain or just to see how long you can go without fapping?
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I remember going 2+ weeks of no fap and I had to sleep on my side or back or else I would have a wet dream.
Good times...
Good times...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I've been trying to reach 90 days of nofap, I kid you not It's been affecting my time and my studies terribly as well as the focus and motivations I have daily.
I took up nofap a year ago, but it hasn't been going well for me lately.
Since were all in this together, I think we'll pull through quite well.
Day 1 starts today. :cheer:
I took up nofap a year ago, but it hasn't been going well for me lately.
Since were all in this together, I think we'll pull through quite well.
Day 1 starts today. :cheer:
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I have been doing the Nofap challenge for a year now and my limit was about 6 weeks. Every time i fap I notice some serious changes on me and even around me, most of the time bad luck, exhausted for the first 2 days after faping, easily feeling awkward, lack of inspiration while discussing topics with other people and angry. After 3 days im normal again and as the time moves on im more calm,i think more clearly,my real self comes easily outside( im a really funny guy) and almost everything is moving as i want to. Actually i think its easy to not fap as long as you are controling your thoughts when you see a female and when you are busy with your work.
Some of you might ask ' then why dont you hold it longer ? ' The reason is that after 4-5 weeks i feel sexually neutral i mean i dont want to have sex or something like that ( except when i see my hot girlfriend with these tiny clothes lol ) so its like im doing a reset but i dont know about 90 days as the challenge suggests . Ill try to hold it and post the journey here after i reach the 90 days
Some of you might ask ' then why dont you hold it longer ? ' The reason is that after 4-5 weeks i feel sexually neutral i mean i dont want to have sex or something like that ( except when i see my hot girlfriend with these tiny clothes lol ) so its like im doing a reset but i dont know about 90 days as the challenge suggests . Ill try to hold it and post the journey here after i reach the 90 days
