"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donjuan87

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Ok, I need the ideas and suggestions of you guys again. This is sort of a continuation of my previous post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122752 (This article will make more sense if you read my first post in that article)My room is going to be a club/lounge theme. More of a place for people and I to drink and chill in a lounge atmosphere between dancing at parties downstairs, to turn into a nightclub atmosphere when there isn't a party downstairs, and, of course, a place to isolate and escalate :cool:

So what are you waiting for? Throw out your ideas!!!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
 

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My replies are in bold:
PRMoon said:
If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) I will probably replace the overhead light with a blacklight bulb and use accent lighting for the main lights quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) It's not about the smell, it's about the smoke detectors and the amount of smoke a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. I have that covered, I will have the best selection in the entire house, no joke It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
Good post, by the way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That is a really neat idea, but I'm going for a trendy nightclub/lounge feel, not a sleazy strip joint.
 
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