"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok, I need the ideas and suggestions of you guys again. This is sort of a continuation of my previous post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122752 (This article will make more sense if you read my first post in that article)My room is going to be a club/lounge theme. More of a place for people and I to drink and chill in a lounge atmosphere between dancing at parties downstairs, to turn into a nightclub atmosphere when there isn't a party downstairs, and, of course, a place to isolate and escalate :cool:

So what are you waiting for? Throw out your ideas!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
 
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PRMoon said:
If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) I will probably replace the overhead light with a blacklight bulb and use accent lighting for the main lights quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) It's not about the smell, it's about the smoke detectors and the amount of smoke a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. I have that covered, I will have the best selection in the entire house, no joke It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
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Good post, by the way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That is a really neat idea, but I'm going for a trendy nightclub/lounge feel, not a sleazy strip joint.
 
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