"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donjuan87

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Ok, I need the ideas and suggestions of you guys again. This is sort of a continuation of my previous post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122752 (This article will make more sense if you read my first post in that article)My room is going to be a club/lounge theme. More of a place for people and I to drink and chill in a lounge atmosphere between dancing at parties downstairs, to turn into a nightclub atmosphere when there isn't a party downstairs, and, of course, a place to isolate and escalate :cool:

So what are you waiting for? Throw out your ideas!!!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
 

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PRMoon said:
If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) I will probably replace the overhead light with a blacklight bulb and use accent lighting for the main lights quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) It's not about the smell, it's about the smoke detectors and the amount of smoke a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. I have that covered, I will have the best selection in the entire house, no joke It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
Good post, by the way.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donjuan87

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That is a really neat idea, but I'm going for a trendy nightclub/lounge feel, not a sleazy strip joint.
 
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