"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My Nightclub

donjuan87

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Ok, I need the ideas and suggestions of you guys again. This is sort of a continuation of my previous post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122752 (This article will make more sense if you read my first post in that article)My room is going to be a club/lounge theme. More of a place for people and I to drink and chill in a lounge atmosphere between dancing at parties downstairs, to turn into a nightclub atmosphere when there isn't a party downstairs, and, of course, a place to isolate and escalate :cool:

So what are you waiting for? Throw out your ideas!!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
 

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My replies are in bold:
PRMoon said:
If you want your room to be the place where it happens for afterhours or have that club/lounge atmosphere, then you need low lighting (maybe a black light with a light globe) I will probably replace the overhead light with a blacklight bulb and use accent lighting for the main lights quality seating (which you already have) a hookah (I know you said no smoking in the house but hooka smoke smells no worse then insense which you said was okay) It's not about the smell, it's about the smoke detectors and the amount of smoke a fridge and a dry bar with a good selection of mid shelf liquor. I have that covered, I will have the best selection in the entire house, no joke It'll be a good place to chill, drink, smoke(hooka only) and converse. If you have a game console PUT IT AWAY. It'll just get in the way because the girls will either be turned off by it or become destracted from the mood you're trying to create.

Pretty basic pretty simple. My suite mate and I had both of our rooms decked out like that all the time and we had flocks of girls (and select guys) over all the time. It was the place to be pre and post partying.
Good post, by the way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That is a really neat idea, but I'm going for a trendy nightclub/lounge feel, not a sleazy strip joint.
 
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