PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't eat ***** unless it's your girlPrettyBoyAJ said:True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
haPrettyBoyAJ said:I'm doing real well but I do feel like I have a problem. I feel like I'm going on a big player stage. I got all these females and I always blow them. One week I have a main chick. The next week I blow that girl and have a new main one. I got some nice looking girls that text me trying to take me out on dates. and I say no all the time because I don't want to deal with them. It's pretty crazy how many girls I got.... will take out... have a good time.... smash them a couple times....then leave them.
O well though, I'm having a good time and I'm never lonely.
But anyway these people on this forum talk about how they are this and that and blah and blah. But lets see these chicks there messing with. I guarantee you my chicks are cute every single time. I don't mess with ugly chicks period.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Then why are you still here? Why did you comeback?Solomon said:ha
I got haters on me right now because of my weight on another thread, this forum is backwards the guys who are doing this legit get flamed but the keyboard jockies get praised. It makes sense why the forums have gone to **** especially in the last 2 years.
In terms of your issue playa, it's not a bad problem to have. What I would do is keep a solid of 4 on the team with 1 floater. Anything more and you just spreading yourself thin
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.