PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don't eat ***** unless it's your girlPrettyBoyAJ said:True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
haPrettyBoyAJ said:I'm doing real well but I do feel like I have a problem. I feel like I'm going on a big player stage. I got all these females and I always blow them. One week I have a main chick. The next week I blow that girl and have a new main one. I got some nice looking girls that text me trying to take me out on dates. and I say no all the time because I don't want to deal with them. It's pretty crazy how many girls I got.... will take out... have a good time.... smash them a couple times....then leave them.
O well though, I'm having a good time and I'm never lonely.
But anyway these people on this forum talk about how they are this and that and blah and blah. But lets see these chicks there messing with. I guarantee you my chicks are cute every single time. I don't mess with ugly chicks period.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Then why are you still here? Why did you comeback?Solomon said:ha
I got haters on me right now because of my weight on another thread, this forum is backwards the guys who are doing this legit get flamed but the keyboard jockies get praised. It makes sense why the forums have gone to **** especially in the last 2 years.
In terms of your issue playa, it's not a bad problem to have. What I would do is keep a solid of 4 on the team with 1 floater. Anything more and you just spreading yourself thin
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.