PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don't eat ***** unless it's your girlPrettyBoyAJ said:True. But the symptoms were in my mouth and she was the only girl I ate out -_-.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
haPrettyBoyAJ said:I'm doing real well but I do feel like I have a problem. I feel like I'm going on a big player stage. I got all these females and I always blow them. One week I have a main chick. The next week I blow that girl and have a new main one. I got some nice looking girls that text me trying to take me out on dates. and I say no all the time because I don't want to deal with them. It's pretty crazy how many girls I got.... will take out... have a good time.... smash them a couple times....then leave them.
O well though, I'm having a good time and I'm never lonely.
But anyway these people on this forum talk about how they are this and that and blah and blah. But lets see these chicks there messing with. I guarantee you my chicks are cute every single time. I don't mess with ugly chicks period.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Then why are you still here? Why did you comeback?Solomon said:ha
I got haters on me right now because of my weight on another thread, this forum is backwards the guys who are doing this legit get flamed but the keyboard jockies get praised. It makes sense why the forums have gone to **** especially in the last 2 years.
In terms of your issue playa, it's not a bad problem to have. What I would do is keep a solid of 4 on the team with 1 floater. Anything more and you just spreading yourself thin
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.