"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have you stopped the porn and gone no fap completely?
 

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Have you stopped the porn and gone no fap completely?
Not sure if that has anything to do with DHT levels. Look at the mgtow community. The acronym, literly stands for men groping their own wieners. If that did, can you imagine how many balding 20, 30 and 40 y.o's there'd be? Nothing wrong with some healthy masturbation btw.
 

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All these baldness theories are bunk new research is showing its a lack of blood flow. You developed atherosclerosis in the viens in your scalp the hardest place to get blood. Blood transport nutrients. When your hardened veins get stiff they stop transporting nutrients to the hair folllices and they shrink to baby hairs and you develop a type of scar tissue. You need to change your diet scalp massages etc
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And ya no fap either you deplete nessacart nutrients. The whole if no fap every guy would be bald is bunk em. The field of genetics has change having certain genetics doesn't mean you get baldness just means you have genes more prone to getting hair loss it's not a sentence. Research epigenetics it's mostly environmental and mental
 

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Dht is one of the last symptoms might go hand in hand with Dht shrinking follicles to starve off rest of folllices to re transport nutrients
Your body chemistry is adapting. Dht is not the main root cause
 

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I fear I will have to settle for women around 28-33.
Oh, the horrors! :rolleyes:


Off topic, I don’t quite understand why shaved head guys feel like they MUST “balance” it with heavy facial hair/beard/goatee.

Nothing wrong with clean shave (if you want to look younger) or an all around buzz.
Statistically women find guys with facial hair more masculine looking. I recall a study where they were shown faces and they found the clean shaven guy least attractive. Makes sense in a way, because facial hair is an effect of testosterone.

When I've had facial hair, however, girls have complained about how rough it is, it irritates their skin when kissing. My facial comes in very stiff, like wire, instead of soft. It also comes in gray now, so IMO it just makes me look older. So clean shaven it is.
 

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Bro

I score so much more bald compared to when I had hair.

Pretty much only 20-26 yo girls because I am 24.

As long as you look manly they dont care at all. Shave and embrace it.
I said it on this board before. My bald friends killing it with women and yes they are generally attractive
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I score so much more bald compared to when I had hair.

Pretty much only 20-26 yo girls because I am 24.

As long as you look manly they dont care at all. Shave and embrace it.
You forgot to mention the part where you are black

Yes I look good bald but I'm not black to where bald is basically no difference

I still look much better and younger with hair
 

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Not sure if that has anything to do with DHT levels. Look at the mgtow community. The acronym, literly stands for men groping their own wieners. If that did, can you imagine how many balding 20, 30 and 40 y.o's there'd be? Nothing wrong with some healthy masturbation btw.
Dave said he has been heavily into ethnic porn since he was 12 and has been yanking the weenie about 3x a day for a long time.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/ive-been-addicted-to-porn-since-i-was-12.255526/

But I'm sure that has zero to do with his anxiety..... Rolleyes

Notice how he won't answer my question
 

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Dave said he has been heavily into ethnic porn since he was 12 and has been yanking the weenie about 3x a day for a long time.

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/ive-been-addicted-to-porn-since-i-was-12.255526/

But I'm sure that has zero to do with his anxiety..... Rolleyes

Notice how he won't answer my question
It does I baldes prematurely. Might not correlate, but nap fap 3 weeks I'm getting checked out more and I'm chubby. Had this red head smile at me in line and she looked my body up head to toe
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Honestly balding is not a deal breaker for many women.

But Dave’s standards for his appearance is in the stratosphere so for him it’s a crisis.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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