My hair transplant surgery was a complete failure

GrowingPains

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DAVE YOURE FVCKING HILARIOUS.

But my dilemma with you is this:

You post questions. And you don't take the advice. You just try to nitpick what people say and it never goes anywhere. That's why I can't offer you advice anymore. Even though I really do want to because it seems like you need help. But it seems the only person who you're willing to listen to is you.

Also, the 'you guys make it seem like I'm into Nigerian girls' comment is a bit odd. What's wrong with Nigerian girls? I'm starting to see a pattern here...
 

bigdave17

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The guy you posted would not look better with or with out hair at most a smudge, he is extremely pale, his skin looks unhealthy and he has some pretty deep fine lines and a weak facial structure


that's about your average bald man dude.


the 2 guys I posted have 1 in a 1000 facial aesthetics
 

bigdave17

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#63
DAVE YOURE FVCKING HILARIOUS.

But my dilemma with you is this:

You post questions. And you don't take the advice. You just try to nitpick what people say and it never goes anywhere. That's why I can't offer you advice anymore. Even though I really do want to because it seems like you need help. But it seems the only person who you're willing to listen to is you.

Also, the 'you guys make it seem like I'm into Nigerian girls' comment is a bit odd. What's wrong with Nigerian girls? I'm starting to see a pattern here...

I'm into women who look like this buddy



 

mrgoodstuff

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that's about your average bald man dude.


the 2 guys I posted have 1 in a 1000 facial aesthetics
This post went straight homo. The top guys say you cant focus on looks. Its game and connections. And you cant tell females what they are physically attracted to.
 

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Grewd

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I am very harsh on myself. I feel i need to look and be perfect
No sh!t, but you're wrong. Did it ever cross your mind that it's your way of thinking and not what's growing on top of your head that's the problem?
 

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@bigdave17

No offence mate but it seems your issue is purely mental. You are fapping so much to porn that you are literally frying your brain.

You start to think that something is wrong about your looks. I've seen your picture. You should have no issues with picking up 7's but your personality would need to be healthy and its not. Your posts are mostly full of low-self esteem statements.

You prefer to hook your brain on porn, posting 9/10's and 10/10s SMV women photos stating they are your minimum target lvl and you slowly but steadily turn into gay receiver considering how much angry looking ripped guys photos you are uploading here and there.

Take a break from women, go no fap& no porn for 90 days and go back to picking up women. Considering your present state of mind, you will just fail miserably.
 
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@bigdave17

No offence mate but it seems your issue is purely mental. You are fapping so much to porn that you are literally frying your brain.

You start to think that something is wrong about your looks. I've seen your picture. You should have no issues with picking up 7's but your personality would need to be healthy and its not. Your posts are mostly full of low-self esteem statements.

You prefer to hook your brain on porn, posting 9/10's and 10/10s SMV women photos stating they are your minimum target lvl and you slowly but steadily turn into gay receiver considering how much angry looking ripped guys photos you are uploading here and there.

Take a break from women, go no fap& no porn for 90 days and go back to picking up women. Considering your present state of mind, you will just fail miserably.
He will look better once he starts having sex. In his recent pics i see a sexless "Chester" looking face from all the porn fapping and no real sex.
 

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@bigdave17

No offence mate but it seems your issue is purely mental. You are fapping so much to porn that you are literally frying your brain.

You start to think that something is wrong about your looks. I've seen your picture. You should have no issues with picking up 7's but your personality would need to be healthy and its not. Your posts are mostly full of low-self esteem statements.

You prefer to hook your brain on porn, posting 9/10's and 10/10s SMV women photos stating they are your minimum target lvl and you slowly but steadily turn into gay receiver considering how much angry looking ripped guys photos you are uploading here and there.

Take a break from women, go no fap& no porn for 90 days and go back to picking up women. Considering your present state of mind, you will just fail miserably.
Ive posted pics of women i was interested from online dating and they were rated as 6s

They still wanted nothing to do with me
 

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@bigdave17

No offence mate but it seems your issue is purely mental. You are fapping so much to porn that you are literally frying your brain.

You start to think that something is wrong about your looks. I've seen your picture. You should have no issues with picking up 7's but your personality would need to be healthy and its not. Your posts are mostly full of low-self esteem statements.

You prefer to hook your brain on porn, posting 9/10's and 10/10s SMV women photos stating they are your minimum target lvl and you slowly but steadily turn into gay receiver considering how much angry looking ripped guys photos you are uploading here and there.

Take a break from women, go no fap& no porn for 90 days and go back to picking up women. Considering your present state of mind, you will just fail miserably.
Ive posted pics of women i was interested from online dating and they were rated as 6s

They still wanted nothing to do with me
@bigdave17 you ignored everything he said in his reply that you captured.

You realize that, if you're not dismissing peoples replies outright, you capture their reply and respond in an attempt to divert away from what they said and create a different narrative (deflection)

In all honesty, you deflect/ignore in an attempt to deflect, so often that no woman is going to want to be with you long term because, everytime a real issue comes up, you'll ignore and/or deflect away from discussing it, and nothing will ever get resolved. This pattern creates resentment in people. No woman is going to stick around very long if she feels resentful towards you.

Just an observation.
 

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Ive posted pics of women i was interested from online dating and they were rated as 6s

They still wanted nothing to do with me
Work your way into that cur
Ive posted pics of women i was interested from online dating and they were rated as 6s

They still wanted nothing to do with me
Work your way into their mindsets by sexxing their slightly lesser attractive friends. Women dont see 1-10 ratings on their side like men do. They are competitive.
 

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@bigdave17 you ignored everything he said in his reply that you captured.

You realize that, if you're not dismissing peoples replies outright, you capture their reply and respond in an attempt to divert away from what they said and create a different narrative (deflection)

In all honesty, you deflect/ignore in an attempt to deflect, so often that no woman is going to want to be with you long term because, everytime a real issue comes up, you'll ignore and/or deflect away from discussing it, and nothing will ever get resolved. This pattern creates resentment in people. No woman is going to stick around very long if she feels resentful towards you.

Just an observation.
I know my porn addiction is a problem. I'm working on it

I was just refuting the claim that I'm going for 9s and 10s. I'm very happy with a 6 with a hot body
 
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I know my porn addiction is a problem. I'm working on it

I was just refuting the claim that I'm going for 9s and 10s. I'm very happy with a 6 with a hot body
IMO it's your porn addiction that's causing your approach anxiety
 

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IMO it's your porn addiction that's causing your approach anxiety
My early porn watching caused me lots of problems

I just didn't learn how to interact with women as human beings. After that, i developed severe confidence and self esteem issues from being fat in high school

Last 12 years has been me trying to unravel all that damage
 

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My early porn watching caused me lots of problems

I just didn't learn how to interact with women as human beings. After that, i developed severe confidence and self esteem issues from being fat in high school

Last 12 years has been me trying to unravel all that damage
Very non sarcastically I will urge you to discuss this with a therapist - unless you think you need anti anxiety meds, then do psychotherapy. 6 months, once a week, could do you a world of good un wraveling all of this. Just make sure they know everything you've told us.

You are too young to let this shiz continue to cripple you. If you don't deal with it, next thing you know you're 40 and still single and childless.

If you spend 6 most to a year, dealing with t professionally, within 2 years it could be a brand new world for you
 
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I know my porn addiction is a problem. I'm working on it

I was just refuting the claim that I'm going for 9s and 10s. I'm very happy with a 6 with a hot body
Mate I can see by the way how you write that you are anxious person.

Fapping to porn hacks your dopamine mechanism which means that you cannot function normally w/o it.

Basically speaking it poisons your brain and 'zombifies' you so to speak so you need more and more to get a hike and feel ok just for couple of hours.

So there's no "I'm working on it" I'm afraid. It may be one of the main reasons why you struggle with yourself.

There's a decent chance that you wouldn't even care about your hair that much if not for anxiety caused at least partially by porn & massive amounts of fapping (from what I read you are heavily addicited, guys that go 1fap/day w/o porn are quite possibly addicted to masturbation - you are shadow version of bigdave17 right now for sure).
 

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Arab and latin is often the same features. Dude in the OP picture is Hispanic and looks very similar to me

I can definitely pull off shaved head look but it just makes me look older
Do it then and see how it works. Worst case scenerio, 6 - 8 months you need to regrow your hair. Just please, stop with the posting of the guy picks. Lol.
 
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