"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My grandpa just passed

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My grandpa passed, earlier this evening so in a fitting send off, I am drinking whisky and listening to Celtic music. Drinking of course causes thinking. I was thinking about how I never really told him I loved him. I did but his closed off nature made it near impossible to feel comfortable expressing any emotion around him. More often than not conversations were limited to a few sentences.

Now, I am regretting that I wasn't as close to him as I would want. I just want to pass on some words, if you love somebody, make sure that you tell them and live your life to the fullest.

Now back to listening to "Danny Boy".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You know there's a thing called the phone right. It's not too late.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers, etc. Its been a hectic couple of days and there are still more to come in preperation for the funeral. Mostly its in a support role, my dad is a mess and all wrapped up with preperations that I am stepping in to help run the business he has with my grandpa.

San Jose, it may feel weird or awkward to start getting in touch with your family, but if you do want to be closer to them you need to take that first step.
 
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