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My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

Ouzo

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So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?

I haven't seen her in two days (half because I am playing hard to get, half because I have been busy).

Should I see her tonight or make her suffer until tomorrow. As an added bonus she was telling me last night she was craving me, etc ...really wanting me bad.

How do I respond to this situation? Do I lighten up or continue my status as more important. I saw her on Saturday night, it is now Monday.

Thanks, any help on my direction from here would be good!
 

nishbuk

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I'm not an expert...but if it's not broke, don't fix it! Just keep doing what you are doing until/if/when you become more serious with the girl. It sounds like things are going just the way that you want them to. :)
 

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Keep doin what you're doing. It shows you have what we in the industry call a LIFE :)

Meet with her soon, but on your own terms. Then take advantage of her "missing you" by getting some well deserved action ;)
 

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she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

Ouzo

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Blazer
she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


Lost In Translation :D

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Cheers for replying dude. I've read some of ya work - impressed. :p.

Basically I am sort of a recovering AFC. I haven't read this stuff religiously but I reckon I have picked it up quite easily.

Not long ago I was in the reverse of this situation ...I was quite demanding and I could tell she was in control. I had to change things - it's obvious now I have.

I thought I was on the right track. I'll keep being inconsistent in regards to everything (dates, gifts ...none for her yet hehe, seeing her, etc).

BUT, cheers!!

She also complains that I don't buy her gifts hehe ...I won't until its her birthday (in like two months). The only thing I have brought her is a hot chocolate and ice cream - lucky her.

But I'm picking up on tricks of the trade and I'm doing things on my terms.

Cheers guys.
 

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Originally posted by Blazer
So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?


Message back this: "Do I know you?"
 

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haha fuk

when i start dating the girl I was with she use to say that alot,, I was actually just being me,,,doing nothing special ..I guess I am naturallya challenge, and thats why shes still with me ;)
 

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Re: Re: My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Message back this: "Do I know you?"
Remember I am going out with her ;)

That might be too much ..too borderline.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)
Hard to argue with this.

Good work.
 
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