“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

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So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?

I haven't seen her in two days (half because I am playing hard to get, half because I have been busy).

Should I see her tonight or make her suffer until tomorrow. As an added bonus she was telling me last night she was craving me, etc ...really wanting me bad.

How do I respond to this situation? Do I lighten up or continue my status as more important. I saw her on Saturday night, it is now Monday.

Thanks, any help on my direction from here would be good!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nishbuk

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I'm not an expert...but if it's not broke, don't fix it! Just keep doing what you are doing until/if/when you become more serious with the girl. It sounds like things are going just the way that you want them to. :)
 

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Keep doin what you're doing. It shows you have what we in the industry call a LIFE :)

Meet with her soon, but on your own terms. Then take advantage of her "missing you" by getting some well deserved action ;)
 

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she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Blazer
she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


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Cheers for replying dude. I've read some of ya work - impressed. :p.

Basically I am sort of a recovering AFC. I haven't read this stuff religiously but I reckon I have picked it up quite easily.

Not long ago I was in the reverse of this situation ...I was quite demanding and I could tell she was in control. I had to change things - it's obvious now I have.

I thought I was on the right track. I'll keep being inconsistent in regards to everything (dates, gifts ...none for her yet hehe, seeing her, etc).

BUT, cheers!!

She also complains that I don't buy her gifts hehe ...I won't until its her birthday (in like two months). The only thing I have brought her is a hot chocolate and ice cream - lucky her.

But I'm picking up on tricks of the trade and I'm doing things on my terms.

Cheers guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Blazer
So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?


Message back this: "Do I know you?"
 

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haha fuk

when i start dating the girl I was with she use to say that alot,, I was actually just being me,,,doing nothing special ..I guess I am naturallya challenge, and thats why shes still with me ;)
 

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Re: Re: My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Message back this: "Do I know you?"
Remember I am going out with her ;)

That might be too much ..too borderline.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)
Hard to argue with this.

Good work.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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