“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

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So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?

I haven't seen her in two days (half because I am playing hard to get, half because I have been busy).

Should I see her tonight or make her suffer until tomorrow. As an added bonus she was telling me last night she was craving me, etc ...really wanting me bad.

How do I respond to this situation? Do I lighten up or continue my status as more important. I saw her on Saturday night, it is now Monday.

Thanks, any help on my direction from here would be good!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm not an expert...but if it's not broke, don't fix it! Just keep doing what you are doing until/if/when you become more serious with the girl. It sounds like things are going just the way that you want them to. :)
 

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Keep doin what you're doing. It shows you have what we in the industry call a LIFE :)

Meet with her soon, but on your own terms. Then take advantage of her "missing you" by getting some well deserved action ;)
 

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she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
Blazer
she was telling me last night she was craving me

good work

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)


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Cheers for replying dude. I've read some of ya work - impressed. :p.

Basically I am sort of a recovering AFC. I haven't read this stuff religiously but I reckon I have picked it up quite easily.

Not long ago I was in the reverse of this situation ...I was quite demanding and I could tell she was in control. I had to change things - it's obvious now I have.

I thought I was on the right track. I'll keep being inconsistent in regards to everything (dates, gifts ...none for her yet hehe, seeing her, etc).

BUT, cheers!!

She also complains that I don't buy her gifts hehe ...I won't until its her birthday (in like two months). The only thing I have brought her is a hot chocolate and ice cream - lucky her.

But I'm picking up on tricks of the trade and I'm doing things on my terms.

Cheers guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Blazer
So she SMS me before saying

"U really r trying to play harrd to get arent you!"

We have been together for nearly a month now. Everything is going great. I'm happy.

How do I respond to this?


Message back this: "Do I know you?"
 

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haha fuk

when i start dating the girl I was with she use to say that alot,, I was actually just being me,,,doing nothing special ..I guess I am naturallya challenge, and thats why shes still with me ;)
 

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Re: Re: My girlfriend is telling me I am playing hard to get

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Message back this: "Do I know you?"
Remember I am going out with her ;)

That might be too much ..too borderline.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation

thats ******** for : " you are a challenge and i love it "

keep doing what you are doing :)
Hard to argue with this.

Good work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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