I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
OP, you need to flat out stop the b1tching and just enjoy your relationshipRagin_Asian said:she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.
So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.
It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonS said:Two, you need to be holding this chick in a constant state of infatuation; because when you do, there are no "talks", no bad behavior, no withholding sex, no BS, just wild monkey fvcking 3 times a day in whichever position you command her to.
Most DJ's learn how to put women in "state", true masters learn how to hold them there and reap the rewards.
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