"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My GF has done freaky stuff in the past but won't get freaky now

The Gamer

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"I won her "

Your problems stem from this thinking.

Dump her if she isn't providing what you want and need. EZ.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ragin_Asian

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slickaz thanks man...sometimes I forget how good i have it. I think I have a habit of always wanting more and more then becoming more greedy.
 

Rudy_TubeSteak

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What would you do if say

shes done anal with other boyfriends but flat out wont ever do it with you without making an effort?

you gotta next that man
 

trv26

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OP seemingly you don't mean as much to her as the others did. I totally get where you're coming from. Any girl I'm dating especially one I'm serious abou I'd expect her to atleast go as far with me as she has before if not further.

Also a threesome is hardly that degrading an experience especially with another girl.
 

Raikojo17

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Ragin_Asian said:
she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.

So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.

It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.
OP, you need to flat out stop the b1tching and just enjoy your relationship

You know how many people would kill to be where you are? To have a chick that loves them and tries to please them? but you still want MORE? wtf?

You need to stop thinking that other dudes had it better, because to tell you the truth, they didn't if she goes this far to please you. Like Slickaz said, some dude did it. so what. the past is over, live the now.

Men shouldn't beg their Women for ANYTHING. not only is it childish, but it makes you seem insecure and needy. Insecure because you are whining about and comparing what other guys got that you didn't. Needy because it you can't be with her without it. Not good man. Not good.

You should never force a chick to do something she doesn't want to do. It doesn't have sh1t to do with her attraction or mindset. She has her reasons, but for whatever reason you should respect the fact that she don't wanna do it. be man enough to either except it or move on if these "freaky things" mean that much to you.
Relationships are more than Just sex. and to me it sounds like she's sexing you pretty damn good. so why not be happy with that and stop trying to push her into things she doesn't want to do?
Enjoy her. Women that good don't come easy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jean Valjean

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DonS said:
Two, you need to be holding this chick in a constant state of infatuation; because when you do, there are no "talks", no bad behavior, no withholding sex, no BS, just wild monkey fvcking 3 times a day in whichever position you command her to.

Most DJ's learn how to put women in "state", true masters learn how to hold them there and reap the rewards.

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New DJ here. Please tell me where I can get more info on creating and maintaining this "state of infatuation" !
 
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