Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
OP, you need to flat out stop the b1tching and just enjoy your relationshipRagin_Asian said:she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.
So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.
It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonS said:Two, you need to be holding this chick in a constant state of infatuation; because when you do, there are no "talks", no bad behavior, no withholding sex, no BS, just wild monkey fvcking 3 times a day in whichever position you command her to.
Most DJ's learn how to put women in "state", true masters learn how to hold them there and reap the rewards.
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