Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OP, you need to flat out stop the b1tching and just enjoy your relationshipRagin_Asian said:she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.
So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.
It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonS said:Two, you need to be holding this chick in a constant state of infatuation; because when you do, there are no "talks", no bad behavior, no withholding sex, no BS, just wild monkey fvcking 3 times a day in whichever position you command her to.
Most DJ's learn how to put women in "state", true masters learn how to hold them there and reap the rewards.
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