"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My GF has done freaky stuff in the past but won't get freaky now
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
Rudy_TubeSteak
Senior Don Juan
shes done anal with other boyfriends but flat out wont ever do it with you without making an effort?
you gotta next that man
Also a threesome is hardly that degrading an experience especially with another girl.
OP, you need to flat out stop the b1tching and just enjoy your relationshipRagin_Asian said:she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.
So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.
It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.
You know how many people would kill to be where you are? To have a chick that loves them and tries to please them? but you still want MORE? wtf?
You need to stop thinking that other dudes had it better, because to tell you the truth, they didn't if she goes this far to please you. Like Slickaz said, some dude did it. so what. the past is over, live the now.
Men shouldn't beg their Women for ANYTHING. not only is it childish, but it makes you seem insecure and needy. Insecure because you are whining about and comparing what other guys got that you didn't. Needy because it you can't be with her without it. Not good man. Not good.
You should never force a chick to do something she doesn't want to do. It doesn't have sh1t to do with her attraction or mindset. She has her reasons, but for whatever reason you should respect the fact that she don't wanna do it. be man enough to either except it or move on if these "freaky things" mean that much to you.
Relationships are more than Just sex. and to me it sounds like she's sexing you pretty damn good. so why not be happy with that and stop trying to push her into things she doesn't want to do?
Enjoy her. Women that good don't come easy
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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DonS said:Two, you need to be holding this chick in a constant state of infatuation; because when you do, there are no "talks", no bad behavior, no withholding sex, no BS, just wild monkey fvcking 3 times a day in whichever position you command her to.
Most DJ's learn how to put women in "state", true masters learn how to hold them there and reap the rewards.
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New DJ here. Please tell me where I can get more info on creating and maintaining this "state of infatuation" !