"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My GF doesn't Miss Me

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So when we were texting, she popped this statement:

"I don't miss you, I wonder why. Haha, stupid, I know."

At first it left me surprised. But then I realized that I didn't really miss her too! But that doesn't mean I don't love her anymore. So I replied jokingly:

"But you still love me do you, honey? ;)"

Her: "Haha, yes, hon."

So my question is, is it normal to no longer having the "i miss you" feeling? We've been dating for about 6 months, exclusive for a month. We meet once a week, but texting everyday, from morning to night (I wonder if this is the cause).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fela Kuti said:
So when we were texting, she popped this statement:

"I didn't miss you, I wonder why. Haha, stupid, I know."

At first it left me surprised. But then I realized that I didn't really miss her too! But that doesn't mean I don't love her anymore. So I replied jokingly:

"But you still love me do you, honey? ;)"

Her: "Haha, yes, hon."

So my question is, is it normal to no longer having the "i miss you" feeling? We've been dating for about 6 months, exclusive for a month. We meet once a week, but texting everyday, from morning to night (I wonder if this is the cause).

She is sick of you.

Dissapear from her life for awhile and make her miss you.
 

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I had this expirience. Weeks later she was attempting to manipulate me into breaking up with her because she couldn't do it herself. It's perfectly normal to have that "I miss you" feeling go away. Some chicks see it like they have to break up especially when they begin getting those feelings from another man and not you.
 
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I think I know the feeling your girl is having.

It's the feeling when my girlfriend is too clingy and then I want to get rid if her.

You are the clingy girl in this situation, I believe. Stop texting her all day. Go a few days a week without contacting her or you are history.
 

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look, i don't miss her either but i'm not sick of her. in fact, i love her as much as i ever do. and i'm pretty much sure that she feels the same.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Name is Nobody said:
I think I know the feeling your girl is having.

It's the feeling when my girlfriend is too clingy and then I want to get rid if her.

You are the clingy girl in this situation, I believe. Stop texting her all day for 6 months. Go one day without contact man, you can do it!
sorry, dude. but i'm not clingy. see, i only meet her once a week an sometimes don't initiate contact.
 

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Sounds like frivelous harmless conversation to me.

Pay it no mind unless the old gut instinct makes you feel something is wrong.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
You said you text her all day every day. My bad.
there's a difference between "we text everyday" and "i text her everyday". :cool:
 
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Fela Kuti said:
there's a difference between "we text everyday" and "i text her everyday". :cool:
But that's not what you said.

Fela Kuti said:
We meet once a week, but texting everyday, from morning to night (I wonder if this is the cause).
That's what you said.

And yes it is the cause. You already know it is the cause so why are you asking?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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look, i don't miss her either but i'm not sick of her. in fact, i love her as much as i ever do. and i'm pretty much sure that she feels the same.

You don't know her feelings 100%. Just be careful man. Thats all I must say. I wish you the best and if things don't go as planned don't turn suicidal.
 

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Sounds like frivelous harmless conversation to me.

Pay it no mind unless the old gut instinct makes you feel something is wrong.


The gut feelings tells him something wrong and thats why he's asking.
 
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I don't believe you that you don't miss her you wouldn't be making this thread! You think she's making a thread about you somewhere because she doesn't miss you? Reality check time.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
But that's not what you said.

And yes it is the cause. You already know it is the cause so why are you asking?
yes, i admit i didn't say "we text everyday", but i said "texting everyday". but there's no diferrence, right? :) i certainly didn't say I text her everyday.

i don't know yet if it's the cause. i'm only wondering.
 
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Well good luck. Get more numbers and talk to more girls so you don't care so much about what this one is doing. She will sense you are talking to other girls and want you bad again.

It's not easy as you can see by my thread I just made, but nothing good in life is easy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been with my girl for a while now and what I've found is that when we're not together, I have things to do which will take my mind off missing her so it seems like I don't.
But when you see her, give her a kiss etc you know you've missed her...

I'm sure it's the same thing with you guys.
A little hard to explain.
 

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PROTECT YOUR HEART.

WATCH HER ACTIONS.

If she doesn't miss you. Her Interest Level is low. I didn't spend any time with my girlfriend one day and she called me up like 4 times telling me how much she misses me. It hasn't been 24 hours and my girlfriend misses me!

How much does your girlfriend miss you? None, she probably doesn't care for you anymore. Maybe she does but, I'd be carefull!
 

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Mate, that text sayin she doesn't miss you was just a joke, christ lighten up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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