"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My GF doesn't Miss Me

Fela Kuti

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Jerry Maguire said:
I've been with my girl for a while now and what I've found is that when we're not together, I have things to do which will take my mind off missing her so it seems like I don't.
But when you see her, give her a kiss etc you know you've missed her...

I'm sure it's the same thing with you guys.
A little hard to explain.
i most agree with you, mate :) Actually she said, "maybe I'll realize that I missed you when we meet again."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the_great_gaia

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Fela, i feel you man.

Look, she's just joking around with you when she said that she doesn't miss you. Look, cause if she didn't, why would she have even of mentioned it? She's just joking around with you, and I know you love her because you're doing the same things I do when it comes to my girl: you're OVER-analyzing her every move. Yea, her love must seem too good to be true, like you can't believe that you have someone like her. You want to explode, but you can't let her know how you feel inside. i know how it is, man. Don't look so hard into things that she does and you'll be okay. She's just joking around with you.
 

Fela Kuti

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I think I know what the cause is. we text each other too much. so yesterday I proposed her a plan: tomorrow, no contact for the whole day. she agreed.
 

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boo ****ing who...

she's just trying to get a reaction out of you.. normal chick behavior... pay it no attention and proceed with what you were doing before...
 

The Juan and only

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To op: You are in by far the best position to judge her intent.

If something feels wrong in your gut, then it probably is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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