"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My friends fantastically psycho ex wants to see me. Ew

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well...

No..no that's okay. I guess.


*sigh*

I guess I have more fun when you're mean.
 

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Well...

No..no that's okay. I guess.


*sigh*

I guess I have more fun when you're mean.
That is because you like pyscho b!tches. They make you feel ALIVE. Because your soul is DEAD.

Wake up! Free yourSELF!!!

You seek the miserable pychotic leeches because you are miserable, and you are leeching off of their misery! Something is wrong with you! Just look at the chicks you are attracted to, in order to see yourSELF in the mirror!






(There.)
 

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iqqi said:
That is because you like pyscho b!tches. They make you feel ALIVE. Because your soul is DEAD.

Wake up! Free yourSELF!!!

You seek the miserable pychotic leeches because you are miserable, and you are leeching off of their misery! Something is wrong with you! Just look at the chicks you are attracted to, in order to see yourSELF in the mirror!

(There.)

So you're saying that's why I like you so much? Oh wow. I never realized. Maybe I should give you the same speech I gave the other psycho! Not, my ex psycho. My friend's psycho ex.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mmmm icky number...

*Resists urge to see if she does indeed sound like Winona Ryder*
 

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Kontroller, you have GOT to call her! She sounds EXACTLY LIKE HER!!

We were just about to get on the topic of oral...then my minutes ran out.
 

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Kontroller, you have GOT to call her! She sounds EXACTLY LIKE HER!!

We were just about to get on the topic of oral...then my minutes ran out.

Well I always figured iqqi is doing phone sex or maybe a call girl :D .
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Whoo you're bating me.
Followed by TM biting hook.

Seriously man, just hit the Ignore button instead of ruining your thread and turning it into a 3 page b1tchfest, your just as much a b1tch for getting caught up in it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ThunderMaverick said:
She wrote back:

I didn't mean too much by me "swinging by".... I just like to check out new places. I think you misunderstood, you weirdo. =) j/k. So how long have you been bartending? I bartend and work the door at LAX and Shag sometimes, I'm cool with you stopping by if you want. Do you bartened in the Valley?
This was going to be the obvious reply as 99% of women no matter how slutty will bring out their ASD.

ThunderMaverick said:
Keep in mind I know how violent and freaky this chick is. (I have tons of other nasty stories about her) I know whats going on. There is absolutely NO reason for her to "swing by". We weren't friends. We didn't talk most of the time she was with my friend.


I'm not stOOpid. I wrote her back just now with:
Your are st00pid. If you truly wanted to avoid her, you wouldn't be encouraging her by talking to her at all.

ThunderMaverick said:

Yeah maybe you didn't mean too much, but what usually happens is that I get to joking with a girl and hanging out it usually leads to sex. Tons of it. Then things get complicated. No doubt I would probably try to have sex with you because I'm a ***** hound. And I'm sure you know I had a huge crush on you.

I went from being a cute little virgin to saying "I'm definitely going to screw this girl" if she laughs or touches me a certain way. Most of the time it turns out like that. All subtlety aside, I'm attractive. You're attractive. You get two attractive people in a closet and they make rabbits.


Just being honest. So no, stopping by isn't in my future. hahahaha



I'm hoping all bases are covered in that reply. I don't want any kind of subtle games being exchanged. I want to get this over with. My erection is cursing me out and I'm covering my ears.
What you don't realize is that this response was actually VERY DJ. She's going to want you more than ever now, mark my words. Seriously, just cut contact, if she's crazy, why are you baiting her? Oh maybe the same reason you like playin 3 pages with iqqi.

Why do we recommend NO CONTACT for ex's because its the best way, same thing is true for psycho's you want to avoid. Your only feeding her.
 

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Yeah, notice I never post about closing. I have my eye on a target and I usually get it.

Game doesn't work on her, especially when guys on this site are attempting to do it. She's game proof fellas. Honestly though, can you imagine two posters from sosuave, WHO TALK ABOUT DATING AND GAME ALL THE TIME actually going on a date easily figuring one another out? It would be a whole conversation of "Oh! I see what you did there, playa!"

Whoo that would be f*cking odd. :crackup: :crackup:

Actually Iqqi and I had a wonderful time on the phone last night. She's such a *****cat when you hear her actually talk. ^_~ You guys should call her too.

Edit: What ?? I can't even say "pu$$ycat"? *rolls eyes* Fine...


....vaginacat.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Followed by TM biting hook.

Seriously man, just hit the Ignore button instead of ruining your thread and turning it into a 3 page b1tchfest, your just as much a b1tch for getting caught up in it.

Who says I don't enjoy her bating me? Ignore her? She's not THAT annoying! I can put up with it. I've dealt with worse. :D
 

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What's wrong with dating girls that act all open and sweet one day and then completely cold the next? Totally normal.

wjh said:
Boy does that bring back bad memories...
 

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She wrote back:


I can see you haven't stopped being a weirdo. I guess it's part of your "charm". But I got a laugh out of it.


Goddamn. I was hoping she would say that she wanted to sleep with me.

F***.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ThunderMaverick said:
She wrote back:


I can see you haven't stopped being a weirdo. I guess it's part of your "charm". But I got a laugh out of it.


Goddamn. I was hoping she would say that she wanted to sleep with me.

F***.

You must have been angling for her to write back she wanted to hook up, because this girl is negging you like crazy. That's probably her MO. If you really wanted to get rid of her you would respond to that with basically, "I'm a weirdo? Fvck off b1tch!". That should turn her off and run her away :D .
 

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She sent me a friend request on myspace.

Iqqi, can you honestly say I'm being paranoid NOW?!
 

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wjh said:
Internet buds? LOL - if that's not insulting to a chick I don't know what is...

I'm not saying you shouldn't say that, I just find it amusing.
BPD women deserve all the insults that you can think of.
Why be polite to a monster.
Cluster B women are evil ,sinister haters of men and will slowly destroy your peace, your serenity and your confidence in women generally. They ALL use sex to bait and hook you and when you are attached they withdraw themselves slowly - like pulling out a barbed fish hook sideways.
Your pain is their reward.

Approach at you own peril
 

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jophil28 said:
BPD women deserve all the insults that you can think of.
Why be polite to a monster.
Cluster B women are evil ,sinister haters of men and will slowly destroy your peace, your serenity and your confidence in women generally. They ALL use sex to bait and hook you and when you are attached they withdraw themselves slowly - like pulling out a barbed fish hook sideways.
Your pain is their reward.

Approach at you own peril
Thunder, by god man...read this advise! What are you doing?!? By all means, flirt with Iqqi, but run from this one gal, run damn you!

Seriously, my only question is why? why? after all that's learned here, after all the women on available...why this one?

You should be thankful for many things, and it's those same things that will be taken from you from this horrible excuse of a woman.

Remember the quote of day...Jophil "YOUR PAIN IS THEIR REWARD".
 

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Run away from her? I'm not even NEAR her! I told you she sent me a friend request. I didn't say I was going to add her.

Mr. P, point is is that she knew what she was doing when she messaged me and I cut through the bullsh*t and called her on it. Even after revealing what I had in mind for her she STILL wants to keep contact.

I'm not going to even touch this one fellas. I'm not getting involved. I just wanted to prove a point to a few naysayers.:D'

My sharingan sees all.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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