RichardTheFrog
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I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.Must be my personality, haha
How would they know your personality before talking to you? As they do when they match you based on a few pictures and possibly a profile description?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.Must be my personality, haha
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lmao. Apparently he has a crush on me too. We can all go to Union Square Cafe or 11 Madison Park next time I'm there. NN can buy.He has a crush on me, especially when I made dinner plans to meet him in an oyster bar in midtown, and then flaked. He had oysters alone that night.
LOL
You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.
How would they know your personality before talking to you? As they do when they match you based on a few pictures and possibly a profile description?
Wtf. Your putting the problem on him?get off the juice
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A club dude could bang several babes a week, week after week.Highly unlikely that your 40-year-old friend has fvucked 1000 women.
Assuming he fvucked his first woman at age 15, my math calculates your friend has fvucked 40 women per year for the past 25 years, which means he has fvucked a different woman every 9 days or so for the past 25 years.
Ain't happening.
I think after that it won't have value.So, when you fvck 1000 women, does that qualify as putting pvssy on a pedestal?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
200 is easy if you travel a lot. Different woman every single week and on an average of 4 per month X 12 months = 48/year.I stopped counting after 20, I'm definitely under 60, but even at that level I'm known as a player by everyone that knows me.
What kind of status would 200+ have? It's unheard of to me.
That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So u got an axe to grind with guru1000.That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.
Or are all these 20 somethings just coming in and out of the high value guys life like air satisfied with just a meet or a ONS with a man women for sure should want to be with. And with 1000+ women you are literally jumping off a cliff due to them seeing you on all these dating sites, meeting you, having your number, knowing what you look like having met you, etc.
I think my friend is deeply insecure and lives in Marvel comic land where he's the high value, 20 something, high quality woman getting, boogeyman that tries to instigate paranoia in others with his male fan fiction tales.
**I see my lil student @guru1000 up in this thread desperately trying to prove himself to his sensei and the rest of ss forums like he just came home from kindergarten and got a gold star for his finger paintings. Not bad young grasshopper. Work on that frame lil guy as you're being a little too "try hard" for approval and e-pats on the head.
I've been doing it a good 20 odd years throughout southeast Asia. And along my travels I do meet seasoned men such as myself, it's no mystery nor is it surprising. They are many men doing it, just because you don't know of one or experienced it yourself doesn't make it any less real.From the perspective of a 47-year-old man:
It's highly improbable, especially for a normal business traveler. In my opinion most normal/average businessmen simply lack the financial, physical, and social status required for banging a plethora of women.
To be fair, you must be very good looking because 99% of guys trying those lines would get absolutely nowhere. "Hi how are you?" is basically the first sentence most girls auto-delete you after.You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.
Start anew. I'll have a new harem by Sunday.
Here's Number 5 for the day. Damn, such hard work, I'm sweating!
http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3626_zpsgvitwzbb.png.html?sort=3&o=0
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.