"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My friend says he has a 1000+ notch count of high quality 20 somethings

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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He has a crush on me, especially when I made dinner plans to meet him in an oyster bar in midtown, and then flaked. He had oysters alone that night.

LOL
Lmao. Apparently he has a crush on me too. We can all go to Union Square Cafe or 11 Madison Park next time I'm there. NN can buy.

It's the least he can do
 

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I don't know if that's sarcastic or not.

How would they know your personality before talking to you? As they do when they match you based on a few pictures and possibly a profile description?
You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.

Start anew. I'll have a new harem by Sunday.

Here's Number 5 for the day. Damn, such hard work, I'm sweating!

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3626_zpsgvitwzbb.png.html?sort=3&o=0
 

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She hit me up saying the sex was bomb but she's traumatized and not sure where to categorize me and wants to see how she feels. I told her the honest truth "Look I was really feeling you but what happened Saturday was a bit dramatic for me and it pushed me away a bit. That's why I wasn't texting you. I felt rejected and men are sensitive when it comes to sex like that. I understand you were being safe and I respect that but I think you should take some time to yourself and if you feel like your ready to be intimate again with a man I'm open to talking"

No bs straight to the point. And to be honest I really was liking this chick up until the anxiety attack. My interest level went from 100 after the sex...to about 50 in about five minutes after everything else. She completely ruined a good thing. I really tried to let it not bother me but her freaking out definitely ruined the vibe for me. Hopefully if I do see her again I still can feel turned on by her...Im hoping so anyways.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not really difficult. Anything is pretty easy once you get it down.

3 a week for six years.

even if it cost 100 a pop, (drinks, etc.) that's only a 1200/month hobby.

Lots of folks do much more complicated things in similar frequency over a 5-10 year period and call it a hobby.

Some people are sex addicts, and have a way of identifying each other and getting it on within an hour or so. Several times a week.
 

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didn't happen
 

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Highly unlikely that your 40-year-old friend has fvucked 1000 women.

Assuming he fvucked his first woman at age 15, my math calculates your friend has fvucked 40 women per year for the past 25 years, which means he has fvucked a different woman every 9 days or so for the past 25 years.

Ain't happening.
A club dude could bang several babes a week, week after week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I stopped counting after 20, I'm definitely under 60, but even at that level I'm known as a player by everyone that knows me.

What kind of status would 200+ have? It's unheard of to me.
 

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Does it even matter if he fvcked a 1000 or 100 or even 10?
 

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You can bang 5000 chicks if you can, but when you start telling numbers and all that, you're only in it for the show. Is that what life's about? Banging as many women as you possibly can? Some very shallow people here bangin' each other and calling it cool.
 

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I stopped counting after 20, I'm definitely under 60, but even at that level I'm known as a player by everyone that knows me.

What kind of status would 200+ have? It's unheard of to me.
200 is easy if you travel a lot. Different woman every single week and on an average of 4 per month X 12 months = 48/year.

In 5 years it easily exceed 200.

For an average normal business traveller, he'll prolly hook up with different women 2 X per month. In 10 years he'll exceed the 200 mark.

Edit: This is actually very common in my circles.
 

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Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.

Or are all these 20 somethings just coming in and out of the high value guys life like air satisfied with just a meet or a ONS with a man women for sure should want to be with. And with 1000+ women you are literally jumping off a cliff due to them seeing you on all these dating sites, meeting you, having your number, knowing what you look like having met you, etc.

I think my friend is deeply insecure and lives in Marvel comic land where he's the high value, 20 something, high quality woman getting, boogeyman that tries to instigate paranoia in others with his male fan fiction tales.

**I see my lil student @guru1000 up in this thread desperately trying to prove himself to his sensei and the rest of ss forums like he just came home from kindergarten and got a gold star for his finger paintings. Not bad young grasshopper. Work on that frame lil guy as you're being a little too "try hard" for approval and e-pats on the head.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hookers don't count
 

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My friend tells me he's a billionaire. Though, I doubt it. Just because someone says something doesn't mean it is necessarily true.
 

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That's what I'm saying. Too many holes in the fairytale. Does the dude literally keep an updated spreadsheet? And if a guy claims he's so high value wouldn't he have tons of headaches with women feeling scorned because they aren't being chosen by him? It's like saying you're a lotto winner with millions and have 1000+ people after you yet claim you have no problems with them because you're a lotto winning millionaire.

Or are all these 20 somethings just coming in and out of the high value guys life like air satisfied with just a meet or a ONS with a man women for sure should want to be with. And with 1000+ women you are literally jumping off a cliff due to them seeing you on all these dating sites, meeting you, having your number, knowing what you look like having met you, etc.

I think my friend is deeply insecure and lives in Marvel comic land where he's the high value, 20 something, high quality woman getting, boogeyman that tries to instigate paranoia in others with his male fan fiction tales.

**I see my lil student @guru1000 up in this thread desperately trying to prove himself to his sensei and the rest of ss forums like he just came home from kindergarten and got a gold star for his finger paintings. Not bad young grasshopper. Work on that frame lil guy as you're being a little too "try hard" for approval and e-pats on the head.
So u got an axe to grind with guru1000.

@guru1000 looks like u hv a fan girl and she created a thread just 4 you.

Real feminine story too. Romantic.
 

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From the perspective of a 47-year-old man:

It's highly improbable, especially for a normal business traveler. In my opinion most normal/average businessmen simply lack the financial, physical, and social status required for banging a plethora of women.
I've been doing it a good 20 odd years throughout southeast Asia. And along my travels I do meet seasoned men such as myself, it's no mystery nor is it surprising. They are many men doing it, just because you don't know of one or experienced it yourself doesn't make it any less real.

A weekly stay in Manila, Kuala Lumpur or Bangkok would land you a women among your social/business circles.

You think it's improbable?
 

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You'll have to excuse me Richard. I dropped my harem of 7 this weekend. A few misbehaved, so to punish, I dropped them all.

Start anew. I'll have a new harem by Sunday.

Here's Number 5 for the day. Damn, such hard work, I'm sweating!

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_3626_zpsgvitwzbb.png.html?sort=3&o=0
To be fair, you must be very good looking because 99% of guys trying those lines would get absolutely nowhere. "Hi how are you?" is basically the first sentence most girls auto-delete you after.

So I'm guessing you're tall, ripped and photogenic.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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