"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My first date :( - i know pathetic
- Thread starter toddC
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
BxPrince24
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As for places to take her, go somewhere fun. I try not to do the movies as much because it's like the norm nowadays. You want to take a girl somewhere she'll have fun and remember.
For instance, I went on my first date yesterday and i took the girl to Lazer Park, they have lazer tag and arcade games there. So we played some games with eachother and we played lazer tag. For a first date, there was a hell of a lot of cuddling and flirting, much more than I ever thought was gonna happen.
The main thing is to not think about it much. I was gonna go to lazer park myself and have a great time, but since I knew her and found her attractive I asked if she would like to come along.
Nothing that whole day was forced. You have to just let things run smoothly and don't over think anything or worry about anything, you'll feel it if there's a connection or not between you and the girl.
So back to your question. Bowling, Beach, Arcade *if she's into games*, theme parks, etc...
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
But if you are interesting enough you can do pretty much anything. The most recent "frist date" I went on we went to Borders so I could get a book then too a smoothie place so I could get a drink. It was more like me doing chores and taking her with.
What I guess I am getting out is really where you go doesn't matter as much as YOU matter.
Fun little tip I got from DD. Sometime during the date take her hand, then look at her and say "no hand holding" and let go.
P.S. It's not pathetic at all. What pathetic would be is not trying at all. As long as your trying you are the MAN.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Very good!
I take em to lunch.. it's cheap, show off your conversation skills, make her like you, make her laugh. Drive around, laugh at bad drivers, go to the park, make out on the playground, throw a football around... good times.
happymeal88
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Usually I will go out to lunch with a chich, or after school hang out and go over to either one of our houses to "study" and just hang out.
arutha
Senior Don Juan
Do that followed by chatting her up over lunch, maybe getting take away and sitting somewhere nice like a park or river, and you're set.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Aznkid1030
Don Juan
example: What sports do you like?
-Basketball, tennis
(then you can ask all sorts of things and keep going)
Are you a part of any teams?
which one do you like the most?
Want to go to the gym and shoot some hoops?