Originally I just went to her house and smashed her and stayed the night. But she invited me to go to lunch with her the other day which is something very different than what we usually do. Does this mean anything or is she just casually asking me to eat wth her?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My fb wants to start going on dates
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Yeah see I think she's definitely girlfriend material but am very confused about why she's inviting me to eat wth her. Honestly I ****ing hate eating with people, so do you reckon she wants to date or keep on being fb's with meMr Wright said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
generally eating with someone is a somewhat intimate activity. You hate eating with people? That's a bit strange, but that's your POV.
She probably wants to move things more toward dating, and that is a pretty natural move. Most people enjoy eating with people they like. Its a bonding activity.
She probably wants to move things more toward dating, and that is a pretty natural move. Most people enjoy eating with people they like. Its a bonding activity.
"Honestly I ****ing hate eating with people"
Hahaha I'm the same way.. Ordering food at the bar where you're not facing each other and there are sports on TV is much more comfortable to me. Sitting across from someone quietly eating trying to come up with horsesh*t conversation until you can go back to your place and bang is just torturous. I guess underlying this is my lack of social skills and fear of opening up to people in general, but there is nothing more cringe-worthy and uncomfortable than forced small talk and awkward silences, especially while you're trying to enjoy a meal.
Hahaha I'm the same way.. Ordering food at the bar where you're not facing each other and there are sports on TV is much more comfortable to me. Sitting across from someone quietly eating trying to come up with horsesh*t conversation until you can go back to your place and bang is just torturous. I guess underlying this is my lack of social skills and fear of opening up to people in general, but there is nothing more cringe-worthy and uncomfortable than forced small talk and awkward silences, especially while you're trying to enjoy a meal.