Originally I just went to her house and smashed her and stayed the night. But she invited me to go to lunch with her the other day which is something very different than what we usually do. Does this mean anything or is she just casually asking me to eat wth her?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My fb wants to start going on dates
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
You set the parameters of the arrangement, then it's your job to stick with those parameters, if she doesn't like it, she can walk. Simple as that.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
You do what you want. If you don't want to date her, you don't date her.
Yeah see I think she's definitely girlfriend material but am very confused about why she's inviting me to eat wth her. Honestly I ****ing hate eating with people, so do you reckon she wants to date or keep on being fb's with meMr Wright said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
generally eating with someone is a somewhat intimate activity. You hate eating with people? That's a bit strange, but that's your POV.
She probably wants to move things more toward dating, and that is a pretty natural move. Most people enjoy eating with people they like. Its a bonding activity.
She probably wants to move things more toward dating, and that is a pretty natural move. Most people enjoy eating with people they like. Its a bonding activity.
"Honestly I ****ing hate eating with people"
Hahaha I'm the same way.. Ordering food at the bar where you're not facing each other and there are sports on TV is much more comfortable to me. Sitting across from someone quietly eating trying to come up with horsesh*t conversation until you can go back to your place and bang is just torturous. I guess underlying this is my lack of social skills and fear of opening up to people in general, but there is nothing more cringe-worthy and uncomfortable than forced small talk and awkward silences, especially while you're trying to enjoy a meal.
Hahaha I'm the same way.. Ordering food at the bar where you're not facing each other and there are sports on TV is much more comfortable to me. Sitting across from someone quietly eating trying to come up with horsesh*t conversation until you can go back to your place and bang is just torturous. I guess underlying this is my lack of social skills and fear of opening up to people in general, but there is nothing more cringe-worthy and uncomfortable than forced small talk and awkward silences, especially while you're trying to enjoy a meal.