"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My fault? Not sure if I did anything wrong ..

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OK SO BACK TO THIS GIRL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168048

We were supposed to chill (hook up) on Monday, and today I find out she's going out with some kid. One time she texted me that someone asked her out, but she felt she couldn't go out with him because of how much she liked me, and that she would always be thinking about me. I pretty much felt like I didn't need to do anything else. Basically I responded to her text with the usual "don't you have gfs to talk to this stuff about?" or whatever because I didn't really care too much.

Bottom line is I don't mind that much, she was inexperienced, but it was still fun. Just wondering if I did anything wrong or whatever. Feel free to ask me other info if you need to know.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
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I understand all that, but what's up with her new bf?

How do I go about this now that she's taken?
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
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And if she brings it up directly?

"I wouldn't cheat on blah blah cus that's not right blah blah"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well this could be just Last Minute Resistance. I would just say something as simple as "okay", but then still keep throwing my game at her. Eventually she'll give in if shes really horny or really interested in you. Dont forget: ALL girls have the capability to cheat, no matter how loyal or trustworthy they may seem.
 
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