"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My fault? Not sure if I did anything wrong ..

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OK SO BACK TO THIS GIRL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168048

We were supposed to chill (hook up) on Monday, and today I find out she's going out with some kid. One time she texted me that someone asked her out, but she felt she couldn't go out with him because of how much she liked me, and that she would always be thinking about me. I pretty much felt like I didn't need to do anything else. Basically I responded to her text with the usual "don't you have gfs to talk to this stuff about?" or whatever because I didn't really care too much.

Bottom line is I don't mind that much, she was inexperienced, but it was still fun. Just wondering if I did anything wrong or whatever. Feel free to ask me other info if you need to know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
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I understand all that, but what's up with her new bf?

How do I go about this now that she's taken?
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
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And if she brings it up directly?

"I wouldn't cheat on blah blah cus that's not right blah blah"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well this could be just Last Minute Resistance. I would just say something as simple as "okay", but then still keep throwing my game at her. Eventually she'll give in if shes really horny or really interested in you. Dont forget: ALL girls have the capability to cheat, no matter how loyal or trustworthy they may seem.
 
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