"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My fault? Not sure if I did anything wrong ..

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OK SO BACK TO THIS GIRL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168048

We were supposed to chill (hook up) on Monday, and today I find out she's going out with some kid. One time she texted me that someone asked her out, but she felt she couldn't go out with him because of how much she liked me, and that she would always be thinking about me. I pretty much felt like I didn't need to do anything else. Basically I responded to her text with the usual "don't you have gfs to talk to this stuff about?" or whatever because I didn't really care too much.

Bottom line is I don't mind that much, she was inexperienced, but it was still fun. Just wondering if I did anything wrong or whatever. Feel free to ask me other info if you need to know.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
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I understand all that, but what's up with her new bf?

How do I go about this now that she's taken?
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
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And if she brings it up directly?

"I wouldn't cheat on blah blah cus that's not right blah blah"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well this could be just Last Minute Resistance. I would just say something as simple as "okay", but then still keep throwing my game at her. Eventually she'll give in if shes really horny or really interested in you. Dont forget: ALL girls have the capability to cheat, no matter how loyal or trustworthy they may seem.
 
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