"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My fault? Not sure if I did anything wrong ..

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OK SO BACK TO THIS GIRL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168048

We were supposed to chill (hook up) on Monday, and today I find out she's going out with some kid. One time she texted me that someone asked her out, but she felt she couldn't go out with him because of how much she liked me, and that she would always be thinking about me. I pretty much felt like I didn't need to do anything else. Basically I responded to her text with the usual "don't you have gfs to talk to this stuff about?" or whatever because I didn't really care too much.

Bottom line is I don't mind that much, she was inexperienced, but it was still fun. Just wondering if I did anything wrong or whatever. Feel free to ask me other info if you need to know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
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I understand all that, but what's up with her new bf?

How do I go about this now that she's taken?
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
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And if she brings it up directly?

"I wouldn't cheat on blah blah cus that's not right blah blah"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well this could be just Last Minute Resistance. I would just say something as simple as "okay", but then still keep throwing my game at her. Eventually she'll give in if shes really horny or really interested in you. Dont forget: ALL girls have the capability to cheat, no matter how loyal or trustworthy they may seem.
 
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