"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My fault? Not sure if I did anything wrong ..

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OK SO BACK TO THIS GIRL: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168048

We were supposed to chill (hook up) on Monday, and today I find out she's going out with some kid. One time she texted me that someone asked her out, but she felt she couldn't go out with him because of how much she liked me, and that she would always be thinking about me. I pretty much felt like I didn't need to do anything else. Basically I responded to her text with the usual "don't you have gfs to talk to this stuff about?" or whatever because I didn't really care too much.

Bottom line is I don't mind that much, she was inexperienced, but it was still fun. Just wondering if I did anything wrong or whatever. Feel free to ask me other info if you need to know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude your really overanalyzing this thing. You need to stop thinking so much and just fvck this girl...she really wants you. and based off of what she said regarding going out with someone, its pretty clear she wants you to be her bf (im not saying that you should go out with her im just stating whats obvious to me)

EDIT: and just for the record, stop second guessing yourself and always thinking something is your fault. Be confident and stand behind your words/actions, dont question them so much.
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I understand all that, but what's up with her new bf?

How do I go about this now that she's taken?
 
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Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Just treat her as if she doesnt have a boyfriend at all. Pretend like he doesnt even exist and throw all the game you've got at this chick. If you play your cards right, chances are she'll dump that bf of hers and go to you.
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And if she brings it up directly?

"I wouldn't cheat on blah blah cus that's not right blah blah"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well this could be just Last Minute Resistance. I would just say something as simple as "okay", but then still keep throwing my game at her. Eventually she'll give in if shes really horny or really interested in you. Dont forget: ALL girls have the capability to cheat, no matter how loyal or trustworthy they may seem.
 
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