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haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
my Facebook game.
- Thread starter limerick
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lol. Yes, my first posted stated that like 6 months ago. If you follow my posting history you'd notice that I was hear for like a week and disappeared for months on the DJ bootcamp. So I'll give my super duper advice.superchill89 said:
See, I went back to your first post, and see that you have a problem talking to girls. But I see that post was a while ago, and I won't universally hold you to that forever.
At least look at the time the post was made lol.
creating rapport with new HBs on facebook
I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
All I have to say is that there is nothing attractive, impressive, or C&F about "Teehee, I like being silly, do you?" Makes you sound like a 12-year-old trying to flirt with your big brother's girlfriends.
Just don't bring up that you're from they're school. If they care they will check or whatever. If they say something like "uh I don't know you" just say "my name is John, nice to meet you.Mr. Fresh said:I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
" or something. and lol the girls im talking to all go to different schools n stuff. and if you do see them and say that then it makes it seem like ur basing too much importance on it which is beta. eventually in the convo they'll probably ask you. if u see them at school just game them like normal. and once you've talked to them a bit and built some trust and comfort start doing some kino escalation. u could even just start in the beginning with a thumb war. "give me your hand"
"why?"
"just give it."
*holds hands*
1 2 3 4 I declare a thumbwar...
gmillar - "everything that was funny/fun in second grade is funny again."~Neil Strauss
it breaks down their guard and as long as you don't act really appeasing or betalike and do a lot of kino it should work.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Good stuff in here, I'm sorta like you. I always just say the most random ****. You seem like you just say what's on your tongue which is cool.
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well you learned a lesson from it.....canned lines suck haha
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.