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haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
my Facebook game.
- Thread starter limerick
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol. Yes, my first posted stated that like 6 months ago. If you follow my posting history you'd notice that I was hear for like a week and disappeared for months on the DJ bootcamp. So I'll give my super duper advice.superchill89 said:
See, I went back to your first post, and see that you have a problem talking to girls. But I see that post was a while ago, and I won't universally hold you to that forever.
At least look at the time the post was made lol.
creating rapport with new HBs on facebook
I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
All I have to say is that there is nothing attractive, impressive, or C&F about "Teehee, I like being silly, do you?" Makes you sound like a 12-year-old trying to flirt with your big brother's girlfriends.
Just don't bring up that you're from they're school. If they care they will check or whatever. If they say something like "uh I don't know you" just say "my name is John, nice to meet you.Mr. Fresh said:I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.
" or something. and lol the girls im talking to all go to different schools n stuff. and if you do see them and say that then it makes it seem like ur basing too much importance on it which is beta. eventually in the convo they'll probably ask you. if u see them at school just game them like normal. and once you've talked to them a bit and built some trust and comfort start doing some kino escalation. u could even just start in the beginning with a thumb war. "give me your hand"
"why?"
"just give it."
*holds hands*
1 2 3 4 I declare a thumbwar...
gmillar - "everything that was funny/fun in second grade is funny again."~Neil Strauss
it breaks down their guard and as long as you don't act really appeasing or betalike and do a lot of kino it should work.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Good stuff in here, I'm sorta like you. I always just say the most random ****. You seem like you just say what's on your tongue which is cool.
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well you learned a lesson from it.....canned lines suck haha
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.