"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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superchill89 said:
John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin.
haha pawned
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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=) ask ur friend his secret.
 

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superchill89 said:
John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin. If you are this inexperienced with women you don't really have a right to be giving this guy advice, in fact you'll only hurt his game with your faulty criticism. It was pretty clear that the girls reacted well to his game so I don't see why you felt the need to attack. You seem to be doing that in a good portion of your posts. Again, don't take this personally, but my advice to you John would be to stop being such an angry, spiteful dude ( which you convey through your posts ) and make a massive plan for self improvement. Don't waste your time on this forum, use it to become a better person.
lol. Yes, my first posted stated that like 6 months ago. If you follow my posting history you'd notice that I was hear for like a week and disappeared for months on the DJ bootcamp. So I'll give my super duper advice.

See, I went back to your first post, and see that you have a problem talking to girls. But I see that post was a while ago, and I won't universally hold you to that forever.

At least look at the time the post was made lol.
 

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lol holy shyt. everyone just forget about it. if u wanna argue this is not the place. this is a place where we discuss GAME.
 

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creating rapport with new HBs on facebook

I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out. :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All I have to say is that there is nothing attractive, impressive, or C&F about "Teehee, I like being silly, do you?" Makes you sound like a 12-year-old trying to flirt with your big brother's girlfriends.
 

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Mr. Fresh said:
I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out. :up:
Just don't bring up that you're from they're school. If they care they will check or whatever. If they say something like "uh I don't know you" just say "my name is John, nice to meet you. ;)" or something. and lol the girls im talking to all go to different schools n stuff. and if you do see them and say that then it makes it seem like ur basing too much importance on it which is beta. eventually in the convo they'll probably ask you. if u see them at school just game them like normal. and once you've talked to them a bit and built some trust and comfort start doing some kino escalation. u could even just start in the beginning with a thumb war.
"give me your hand"
"why?"
"just give it."
*holds hands*
1 2 3 4 I declare a thumbwar...

gmillar - "everything that was funny/fun in second grade is funny again."~Neil Strauss
it breaks down their guard and as long as you don't act really appeasing or betalike and do a lot of kino it should work.
 

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My facebook game continued

CuteGirl8
10:20am April 19th
hey are you still coming to the bell kids walk?

CuteGirl8
10:21am April 19th
anddd if you are or your still unsure, can i have ur number?

Ken Lam
5:03pm April 19th
;O, i don't give my number to strangers. what if ur some weirdo or something? if u add me to msn i could at least block u... how about you give me YOUR number?

CuteGirl8
5:11pm April 19th
hahaaha nvm, but are you still coming?

Ken Lam
5:46pm April 19th
lol well if i gave u my number it would probably just end up lost in your collection somewhere u player. and im not sure yet when is it?

CuteGirl8
2:24pm April 20th
may 6ht hahaha my number is XXX XXX XXXX

Ken Lam
10:29pm April 21st
sweet. i'll call u 10 times a day to see wut ur doing. =)
u don't mind right? lol

CuteGirl8
Today at 9:39am
lol nope
although im doing this whole online thing im still cnfing in school and talking to people in real life so don't try to hate on that. any comments on this particular convo etc?
 

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in my opinion its not so much cnf... its just having something better to say and sometimes right after i say something cnf i ask them something foreal
 

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I'm assuming the misspelling of friendly was ironic, Mr. Spellchecker.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol quit spamming my thread!
 

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Good stuff in here, I'm sorta like you. I always just say the most random ****. You seem like you just say what's on your tongue which is cool.
 

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lolya but the most recent one was a failure. i tried a canned line and i guess my followthrough wasn't that great...
 

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not really... i think i just used it the wrong way or added some bs in. oh well. its just some random online person that i barely know. who cares. pm'd u btw.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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