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haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol. Yes, my first posted stated that like 6 months ago. If you follow my posting history you'd notice that I was hear for like a week and disappeared for months on the DJ bootcamp. So I'll give my super duper advice.superchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin. If you are this inexperienced with women you don't really have a right to be giving this guy advice, in fact you'll only hurt his game with your faulty criticism. It was pretty clear that the girls reacted well to his game so I don't see why you felt the need to attack. You seem to be doing that in a good portion of your posts. Again, don't take this personally, but my advice to you John would be to stop being such an angry, spiteful dude ( which you convey through your posts ) and make a massive plan for self improvement. Don't waste your time on this forum, use it to become a better person.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just don't bring up that you're from they're school. If they care they will check or whatever. If they say something like "uh I don't know you" just say "my name is John, nice to meet you.Mr. Fresh said:I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.![]()
although im doing this whole online thing im still cnfing in school and talking to people in real life so don't try to hate on that. any comments on this particular convo etc?CuteGirl8
10:20am April 19th
hey are you still coming to the bell kids walk?
CuteGirl8
10:21am April 19th
anddd if you are or your still unsure, can i have ur number?
Ken Lam
5:03pm April 19th
;O, i don't give my number to strangers. what if ur some weirdo or something? if u add me to msn i could at least block u... how about you give me YOUR number?
CuteGirl8
5:11pm April 19th
hahaaha nvm, but are you still coming?
Ken Lam
5:46pm April 19th
lol well if i gave u my number it would probably just end up lost in your collection somewhere u player. and im not sure yet when is it?
CuteGirl8
2:24pm April 20th
may 6ht hahaha my number is XXX XXX XXXX
Ken Lam
10:29pm April 21st
sweet. i'll call u 10 times a day to see wut ur doing. =)
u don't mind right? lol
CuteGirl8
Today at 9:39am
lol nope
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.