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haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
haha pawnedsuperchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lol. Yes, my first posted stated that like 6 months ago. If you follow my posting history you'd notice that I was hear for like a week and disappeared for months on the DJ bootcamp. So I'll give my super duper advice.superchill89 said:John.. not to be a d1ck... but I was looking at some of your threads and I saw that you started a thread saying you are 23 and have never kissed a girl and are still a virgin. If you are this inexperienced with women you don't really have a right to be giving this guy advice, in fact you'll only hurt his game with your faulty criticism. It was pretty clear that the girls reacted well to his game so I don't see why you felt the need to attack. You seem to be doing that in a good portion of your posts. Again, don't take this personally, but my advice to you John would be to stop being such an angry, spiteful dude ( which you convey through your posts ) and make a massive plan for self improvement. Don't waste your time on this forum, use it to become a better person.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just don't bring up that you're from they're school. If they care they will check or whatever. If they say something like "uh I don't know you" just say "my name is John, nice to meet you.Mr. Fresh said:I got a quick ques. 4 u limerick. How did u or how do u game girls u don't know who go to ur school on facebook. I friend requested like 10 cuties and I'm gonna try to game them one by one and see how well I do. It's kinda hard I guess but I guess if u do well , u can be in real life to them like" hey what's up arent on my facebook? And take it from there by creating rapport? Let me kno how you did this cause I'm eager to try it out.![]()
although im doing this whole online thing im still cnfing in school and talking to people in real life so don't try to hate on that. any comments on this particular convo etc?CuteGirl8
10:20am April 19th
hey are you still coming to the bell kids walk?
CuteGirl8
10:21am April 19th
anddd if you are or your still unsure, can i have ur number?
Ken Lam
5:03pm April 19th
;O, i don't give my number to strangers. what if ur some weirdo or something? if u add me to msn i could at least block u... how about you give me YOUR number?
CuteGirl8
5:11pm April 19th
hahaaha nvm, but are you still coming?
Ken Lam
5:46pm April 19th
lol well if i gave u my number it would probably just end up lost in your collection somewhere u player. and im not sure yet when is it?
CuteGirl8
2:24pm April 20th
may 6ht hahaha my number is XXX XXX XXXX
Ken Lam
10:29pm April 21st
sweet. i'll call u 10 times a day to see wut ur doing. =)
u don't mind right? lol
CuteGirl8
Today at 9:39am
lol nope
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.