"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My EX! ??

Falling2Pieces

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Okay, me and my ex left on bad terms about 3 months ago. We didn't talk, or even look at eachother. So about 3 weeks ago she calls me and wants to be on "good terms" and says it cool to smash. We WERE both virgins and we were eachother's first. I told her I didn't want to just **** I wanted a girlfriend. She calls me a few days in a row after so I figure we're on the samepage. So today we hang out for the first time, and she mentions it again "If you want to **** its cool, but I'm not sure about the other part of being yours" or something close to that. Should I even bother with her? Or :woo:
I want her, and her body :D but both at the same time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cant win ever battle.
why not just fvkc her a bunch and get the most out fo it.
unless ur scared of oneitis[its a ***** lol. i get oneitis so easily sometimes]
 

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A girl tells you she wants to f*ck and you say no???
 

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It seems like a tempting frame trap. You'll just be her new toy. If she isn't willing to meet your conditions, tell her to take a walk. For all you care, you can get sex anywhere else.

If you just want to just screw, you can go hit on any other guy out there, so unless you will meet my conditions, we're done.

-Damian
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go for it, but as she said, don't expect it to go anywhere. If you're lucky, you may go back to what you had before, but don't count on it.

As always, don't get yourself in a vulnerable spot.
 

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I'd fvck her. She's offering you sex. I see no reason to refuse the requet.
 

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It seems like a tempting frame trap.

Excellent point D.
Agree to the bootie calls, but make them happen on your terms, don't go running to her everytime she calls.

What you can do then is find another girl (or two) and setup bootie calls with them. If she finds out about the other girls, good!
 

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dude u just got a fvck buddy...i WISH i was in your shoes lol...all i want to do right now is get laid cause i'm a virgin...i wish a girlw ould just be like come fvck me whenever u want and not have any attachments!
 
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