"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My EX! ??

Falling2Pieces

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Okay, me and my ex left on bad terms about 3 months ago. We didn't talk, or even look at eachother. So about 3 weeks ago she calls me and wants to be on "good terms" and says it cool to smash. We WERE both virgins and we were eachother's first. I told her I didn't want to just **** I wanted a girlfriend. She calls me a few days in a row after so I figure we're on the samepage. So today we hang out for the first time, and she mentions it again "If you want to **** its cool, but I'm not sure about the other part of being yours" or something close to that. Should I even bother with her? Or :woo:
I want her, and her body :D but both at the same time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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cant win ever battle.
why not just fvkc her a bunch and get the most out fo it.
unless ur scared of oneitis[its a ***** lol. i get oneitis so easily sometimes]
 

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A girl tells you she wants to f*ck and you say no???
 

Damian

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It seems like a tempting frame trap. You'll just be her new toy. If she isn't willing to meet your conditions, tell her to take a walk. For all you care, you can get sex anywhere else.

If you just want to just screw, you can go hit on any other guy out there, so unless you will meet my conditions, we're done.

-Damian
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go for it, but as she said, don't expect it to go anywhere. If you're lucky, you may go back to what you had before, but don't count on it.

As always, don't get yourself in a vulnerable spot.
 

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I'd fvck her. She's offering you sex. I see no reason to refuse the requet.
 

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It seems like a tempting frame trap.

Excellent point D.
Agree to the bootie calls, but make them happen on your terms, don't go running to her everytime she calls.

What you can do then is find another girl (or two) and setup bootie calls with them. If she finds out about the other girls, good!
 

toddC

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dude u just got a fvck buddy...i WISH i was in your shoes lol...all i want to do right now is get laid cause i'm a virgin...i wish a girlw ould just be like come fvck me whenever u want and not have any attachments!
 
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